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Question: Was so valentines day card a secret way of telling me goodbye ? heartbreak. :(....?

(Posted by: miramira on 2010-02-22 23:04:19)

Dating boyfriend for a year close firneds with him for 3 years moving back to his city when grad school finishes up in just 6 weeks from now i thought we had a great valentines day together but since then he has been very distant sketchy refuses to say anything is wrong he usually calls me once a day now hes only called twice in last week he has stopped loggin on facebook to email me like we always do he has stopped forwarding his aim aol to mobile phone so i cant reach him when hes out he is only emailing me on gmail his brother is a veyr close friend. he told me my bf has been looking at craigslist personal ads he noticed. :( so was my bf's V DAY card to me really a goodbye ? why the hell did he also buy me a cute white bear if he doesnt want me ? he wrote front of card says glad we met every once in a while you meet someone you like right from the start inside flap someone you like talking to, sharing with.... someone you want to get to know better... ... then dear a- - - and valentines day is perfect time to thank you for being that someone to me. (that was all preprinted) he then wrote i am glad you got to come down so that we could spend v- day weekend together. it's been a great 3 years knowing you. hugs, kisses, love j-

Posted by: olderbutwiser on 2010-02-25, 04:41:15

I think he is excited about the years to come, and is not thinking about moving on at all! It has been a great 3 years he says, and many more to come, at least that's my take on what he wrote!

Posted by: MASTER SHAKE #24 on 2010-02-23, 04:28:09

Sorry, but it sounds like it's time to find someone else.

Posted by: byrdie on 2010-02-23, 06:50:34

As for the card, the pre-printed part doesn't count much, and what he wrote sounds nice but not passionate. "It's been a great 3 years knowing you " - well, I guess that could be a good-bye, but not necessarily. Basically, I wouldn't try to read too much into the card, but I would pay attention to what his behavior is telling you. And you know what that it. As painful as it is to accept, it seems he is pulling away from you. Time to move on and not focus too much on someone who is not devoted to you.