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Question: I did not call this girl im dating on valentines day, now she doesnt answer me. what should i do?

(Posted by: Adam Z on 2010-02-22 10:01:10)

Didnt do it on purpose. the reason i didnt call her is because, i like her a lot, and in the past everytime i have given a women something on valentines day, it never works out after, they always end up leaving me. so i wanted to do the opposite thing, that way maybe this time this girl stays with me.

Posted by: Jessie D on 2010-02-22, 10:14:07

~ Get her a late Valentine say ur sorry and explain why you didn't call on v-day. P.S. don't ever do that again. ~

Posted by: Lissy on 2010-02-22, 10:02:47

Tell her that and say that she's special to you and you really dont want to lose her :) i'd melt if a guy said that to me tbh :)

Posted by: SOWHAT on 2010-02-22, 10:03:07

Well, dumb ass, then you should have given her something early, not just ignored her! Time to start over again! DUH!

Posted by: Harmony Ginger on 2010-02-22, 10:03:15

Say happy valentines day now -bring her flowers etc.

Posted by: Perez on 2010-02-22, 10:04:06

Well it sounds like it backfired...send her her favourite chocoloates or flowers or just something that would mean something to her and send her a text explaining what happened if shes not answering your calls and next time...buy her something...

Posted by: Samantha on 2010-02-22, 10:04:06

You need to slap her in the butt

Posted by: Raven on 2010-02-22, 10:04:40

Big mistake mate, even thou girls might not like to admit it. they love being showered on valentines day. only thing you can do now, is dont give up. keep calling and see if she will eventually pick up. and dont tell her about the whole "opposite " thing, might blow your chances again.

Posted by: Jessica on 2010-02-22, 10:04:42

Tell her that EXACTLY that she will think that it's sweet but next time call a chick on V-day we like it = ]

Posted by: Kenni on 2010-02-22, 10:05:20

No offense, but you messed up. Just because the past hasn't worked out for you doesn't mean you should just ignore her on v-day. Its a BIG day for many girls. You have to grovel. get her a present, meet her somewhere and apologize.

Posted by: Shorty25 on 2010-02-22, 10:05:33

IT ALL DEPENDS ON THE GIRL AND WHAT HER INTEREST ARE... I WOULDNT BLAME HER.. ITS VALENTINES DAY... I SUGGEST YOU CALL HER AND EXPLAIN.. MAYBE SHE'LL UNDERSTAND... IF YOU LIKE HER AND SHE LIKES YOU THAN YOU CAN GET HER BACK, IF NOT, MOVE ON

Posted by: Carlos on 2010-02-22, 10:05:58

You need to wear the pants in this relationship, if you dont call her be like bitch to bad

Posted by: elio305 on 2010-02-22, 10:06:04

It doesnt look good butt there is still a chance

Posted by: pretty1 on 2010-02-22, 10:06:10

Why didn't you call her? If you are not healed from your past don't hurt others in place of others!!! Go back to square one.

Posted by: Rodney on 2010-02-22, 10:06:31

Well 1st do not ever not get a girl your talking to a vday present. And 2 don't let your past predict your future relationships

Posted by: Rocka71 on 2010-02-22, 10:06:46

It might not be you, someone else may have called when you didn't and spent time with her on valentine's day. she may have decided to be with him now.

Posted by: Store Brand Mayonnaise on 2010-02-22, 10:10:35

Last time I checked, theres a big difference between buying someone a gift, and simply calling them on the phone. In the future, avoid the whole "playing games " thing because you're no good at it

Posted by: Yikes! on 2010-02-22, 10:11:10

Your logic is horrible! Im surprised she didnt leave you, or maybe she did and that is why your not getting anything from her. Horrible choice. Girls HATE to be ignored and especially on Valentines day. You relationships didnt end because you gave them something on V-Day, be honest with yourself lol. Maybe it was you pulling shit like this with them that caused them to leave. I suggest Lots of flowers and a romantic date although if you were my guy youd never see me again. Total asshole move

Posted by: 2 Cent Worth on 2010-02-22, 10:16:32

How's that opposite thing working out for you so far? You should have called. If you've only been together for a short amount of time, I wonder if she was actually expecting something really big for Valentine's day. But that's not the point... You didn't even call her on Valentine's Day? What were you thinking? Were you actually thinking? Women like to know that you are thinking of us and for you to purposely not call on the most romantic (albeit the most contrived) holiday is totally wrong. If she ever speaks to you again....beg her to forgive you and pray that she will take you back.

Posted by: Kiley on 2010-02-22, 10:20:23

Sorry to say it but you messed up. You were being selfish though. You could have called, that's not giving her a damn thing but your attention. She probably moved on. I would have. If a guy ignored me on Valentine's Day I would just assume he was an ass and already had someone else. And again, sorry, but you're going to have to be pretty smooth to convince her she's special when you just treated her like all the other girls who have left you. On the bright side you have almost a whole year left to meet someone you really will treat right and remember on VDay and everyday the new girl is not the same as the past girlfriends. Good luck!